Friday, January 16, 2009

Decluttering and the Mist Filled Path


I started a book called The Mist-Filled Path, Celtic Wisdom For Exiles, Wanderers, and Seekers by Frank MacEowen about a year ago. I was trying to share the book with my mom, which never works because she doesn't share well , when I finally had to go get my own copy. In any case, in the beginning of the book MacEowen brings up a very important point that I would like to discuss. He begins by discussing the 'sleep walkers' who are people who walk from day to day without substance. Night fades into day, day into night becoming a large blur. Sleep walkers are people who aren't 'alive' in the sense of living life with a purpose. Sleep walkers feed on 30 second soundbites and quicksilver images that promise them a much better and fulfilled life if we just had a Slider Station or some other 'convience' contraption. We slowly fill our homes and our sacred spaces up with these devices until we drown in our own clutter. Eventually, the clutter is cleared out and placed in yard sales, taken to the dump, or to Goodwill - giving the person a good feeling and a few moments of peace from all the clutter. But its quickly replaced with more clutter, more technology to make life easier because after all that's the 'good life' right? In the end all it is, is clutter. All these 'conviences' and must haves are not life. They don't deepen our existence, purpose, or wonderment. These objects weigh us down, forcing us out of our homes, our sanctuaries, to seek areas that are more simplistic in nature - a vacation from all the clutter.


Of course, I'm not stating that a person should live in an empty home. Some objects are objects of comfort such as a bookshelf, plant stand, an antique desk, our favorite coffee mug, etc... But one must realize the difference between objects of beauty that make us comfortable and objects we think deepen our lives but only add to clutter. A person can go out and buy themselves a meditation pillow and the CD's to go with it but if that's as far as they go to deepen themselves, then in actuality all they have done is to create clutter. It then becomes something else to throw in a closet, under a bed, or into the trash.


Its odd how an introduction to a book can really make you think. I've always been a woman of simplisty. In fact, most ever corner in every room of my house is clean because I've always felt clutter begins in the corners. But then again my family lives on a fixed budget and I have not been able to buy modern gadgets and 'as seen on tv' products. After some pondering on the intro to this book, I am more cautious what I bring in the house. My home is my sanctuary and as such my goal is to make sure clutter does not rule it. And of course, another goal is to make sure that objects don't become an obsession or social status in my life.

2 comments:

Lucky13 said...

How true is your post today Jaime, it seems since Mom and Dad died that I constantly try to replace the items of memories, but the first flush of discovery and fulfillment only lasts for a moment...and then the clutter begins. I've tried curtailing it into "but I can use this for..." and then don't...more clutter. Then it went to things that were only white to match the rest of the house, yup! You guessed it, more clutter still.
This book review was very good, and while I'm tempted to find a copy at the local used books, somehow I wonder if this too will end up as more clutter that I won't read, or better yet won't follow the advice, or the absolute truth...my willpower will fade as soon as the next pretty piece of glass comes into focus.
I'm so happy to see you blogging again, hope you have pictures of your gardens this season. Could you use any wild columbine? Um my ONE from WV seems to be very happy here and now I have two gardens full of them : )
Aunt Julie

Jaime said...

I fight it hard as well. I'm drawn to pretty glass, dishware, and books.

I would love some wild columbine. *wink*